The Surrender Experiment by  Michael Singer

Surrender = “getting out of life’s way.” How to surrender:
  1. Let go - “First, you let go of the personal reactions of like and dislike that form inside your mind and heart.” Release judgment and the need to control the current moment.
  2. Accept - Then ask yourself “Am I better off making up an alternate reality in my mind and then fighting with reality to make it be my way, or am I better off letting go of what I want and serving the same forces of reality that managed to create the entire perfection of the universe around me?”
  3. Choose - Given the reality of the present moment, make a choice on what serves you most in the now.